7 enemies-to-lovers books where they actually start as enemies

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because mildly irritated acquaintances do not count

We need to discuss the enemies-to-lovers situation.

Because somewhere along the way, “enemies” started meaning “he made an annoying comment during a meeting.”

No.

I want opposing kingdoms.
Assassination plans.
Generational blood feuds.
Weapons.
Possibly an attempted murder before chapter ten.

I need to look at these people and think:

perhaps dating is not the most responsible outcome here.

If that’s your definition too, welcome.

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The Hurricane Wars by Thea Guanzon book cover

1. The Hurricane Wars

Thea Guanzon

Let’s establish the standard immediately.

Talasyn and Alaric are not enemies because they have incompatible personalities.

They are on opposite sides of a war.

Much better.

Talasyn has grown up fighting against the Night Empire, while Alaric represents the power she’s been fighting.

So when attraction begins showing up, there is an actual ideological and military problem attached to it.

♡ plotgirlie verdict
exactly the sort of enemies-to-lovers that makes dating feel like an objectively terrible strategic decision.
enemy level: ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️ /5
tension: ★★★★★ /5
spice: 🌶️🌶️ /5

The Bridge Kingdom by Danielle L. Jensen book cover

2. The Bridge Kingdom

Danielle L. Jensen

Lara marries Aren with the explicit intention of helping destroy his kingdom.

I feel like that qualifies.

She has been trained to infiltrate the Bridge Kingdom, uncover its weaknesses and send information back to her father.

Aren thinks he’s entering a political marriage.

Lara is effectively entering enemy territory as a spy.

♡ plotgirlie verdict
marriage would probably be easier if one person weren’t secretly gathering intelligence to destroy the other’s country.
enemy level: ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️ /5
tension: ★★★★★ /5
spice: 🌶️🌶️ /5

The Jasad Heir by Sara Hashem book cover

3. The Jasad Heir

Sara Hashem

Sylvia is the surviving heir of a kingdom that Nizahl destroyed.

Arin is Nizahl’s heir.

I don’t think we need HR to clarify whether there is a conflict of interest.

Sylvia has spent years hiding who she is because discovery could mean death. Then she ends up forced into a bargain with the prince representing everything she has spent her life running from.

♡ plotgirlie verdict
destroyed kingdom, secret identity and the minor inconvenience of developing feelings for the enemy heir.
enemy level: ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️ /5
tension: ★★★★★ /5
spice: 🌶️🌶️ /5

The Book of Azrael by Amber V. Nicole book cover

4. The Book of Azrael

Amber V. Nicole

Our heroine is not secretly a cinnamon roll being misunderstood by society.

Dianna is dangerous.

Liam is effectively the opposing god-king.

Their histories and allegiances place them firmly on different sides before circumstances force them into cooperation.

Also, bonus points for letting the heroine be the morally questionable one.

We support women’s wrongs here.

♡ plotgirlie verdict
morally questionable heroine meets tortured god-king. what could possibly become emotionally complicated.
enemy level: ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️ /5
tension: ★★★★★ /5
spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️ /5

To Kill a Kingdom by Alexandra Christo book cover

5. To Kill a Kingdom

Alexandra Christo

A siren who kills princes.

A prince who kills sirens.

Nothing concerning here.

Princess Lira literally collects princes’ hearts, while Prince Elian has dedicated himself to hunting her kind.

This is YA and much lighter on spice, but the enemy premise is wonderfully literal.

Neither side is merely irritated. Their species actively hunt each other.

Thank you for respecting the assignment.

♡ plotgirlie verdict
finally, enemies-to-lovers where mutual homicide is genuinely on the table.
enemy level: ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️ /5
tension: ★★★★☆ /5
spice: 🌶️ /5

The Wrath and the Dawn by Renee Ahdieh book cover

6. The Wrath & the Dawn

Renée Ahdieh

Shahrzad volunteers to marry Khalid because she intends to survive long enough to kill him.

Again:

excellent enemy credentials.

Khalid is responsible, as far as she knows, for the deaths of countless young women, including her best friend.

Her objective is revenge.

Then she begins discovering that the reality behind the executions is far more complicated than she understood.

♡ plotgirlie verdict
she married him with murder in mind. I am comfortable filing this one under enemies.
enemy level: ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️ /5
tension: ★★★★☆ /5
spice: 🌶️ /5

These Violent Delights by Chloe Gong book cover

7. These Violent Delights

Chloe Gong

Technically these two are also exes.

Which somehow makes the enemy situation worse.

Juliette and Roma are heirs to rival gangs locked in a generational blood feud controlling 1920s Shanghai.

They used to love each other.

Then betrayal happened.

Now there are guns involved.

Very relaxing.

♡ plotgirlie verdict
exes, rival gangs and a blood feud. normal second-chance relationship circumstances.
enemy level: ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️ /5
tension: ★★★★★ /5
spice: 🌶️ /5

what counts as real enemies-to-lovers?

For me, there needs to be an obstacle bigger than “I find him arrogant.”

Give me at least one of these:

  • opposing political loyalties
  • active warfare
  • genuine plans to kill one another
  • revenge
  • competing kingdoms
  • a blood feud
  • serious ideological conflict
  • one person being directly responsible for something catastrophic in the other’s life

Otherwise we may simply be discussing annoyance-to-lovers, which is a perfectly valid trope but needs its own paperwork.

save this for the next time “enemies to lovers” turns out to mean they disagreed twice. ♡

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